Every girl has a close friend who’s sizing you up. At first, she comes off like a bitch, and you might dismiss her, only to realize later that the girl you’re trying to get with listens to everything her friend says. This is the curse of the best friend who hates your guts, but you can prevent it before it ever happens. Usually guys don’t realize what they’re getting into when they dismiss the scorn of the best friend that your girl is always hanging out with, and everything goes to hell. If you want to close the deal with a babe, make sure to avoid this type of friend’s disapproval, or else you’re wasting your time.
DON’T Flirt With Her
Keep Interaction Polite But Minimal
You’re going to get interrogated, so be ready. When hottie’s friend finally manages to corner you, keep it polite but simple. Politeness goes a long way, and the cock blocking friend probably isn’t expecting it. When we say polite, we don’t mean actively complimenting anyone or flattery. The key here is to respond, not initiate, and keep your answers short, neutral and positive. For example, if the friend asks you what you see in the hottie you want to get naughty with, say something like, “We get along great.” That’s it. Don’t say WHY or try to convince her. Just say it like it is, and she won’t have anything to use against you if she decides she doesn’t like you.
Get Your Hottie Alone
Eventually, you’re going to get around the friend. Humor her interrogation for a while, but then go in and try to get your girl alone. This is much less difficult if you’re not constantly in group situations – like clubs or bars – so offer to take her out on a date (ALONE) and treat her to dinner. This is also where you’ll figure out whether or not she’s worth your time, because if a girl is willing to drop you just because her friend said that you said three words and somehow became an a**hole, she was never going to give you the time of day to begin with. She’s probably playing you, so beware. Its okay to put up with the cock block friend for a little while, but don’t put yourself out there.