Sex toys can be intimidating if you’re inexperienced. As guys, we’d like to think that our junk can get the job done without any gap in satisfaction for a lady, but reality is that girls want more. It’s not that we’re bad in bed; it’s just that girls always want bigger and better. We have to admit that once we tried using some kink with our babes, we started to dig it. Fact is: sex toys make it better if you’re both into it, but you don’t want to start out too ambitious, because it takes some experience to know to wield these sex god tools. Here are a few beginner options to ease you into it if you’re not a kink guy.
Easy thing here: most girls have one. They use them to get off a lot. And we mean, a lot. You may have no idea, but girls really like orgasms. They probably masturbate more than us, and girls are more complex than a little hand action. You can get ahead of the game by offering to use a girl’s vibrator on her, because, believe us, she is not expecting it. Dudes who are insecure can’t deal with the idea of their lady using some other device to get herself off besides their dick, but this is a mistake. Girls get bored easily and if you’re willing to get her off with what she likes, it’s going to get really good. She’s going to want to do more stuff for you in the sack, and we were also surprised to find that we actually likes getting kinky. Sex is a many-splendored thing, and branching out is good. You only live once.
Your lady might have these bad boys lurking around, but only if she’s into light bondage. Handcuffs can be hardcore or lighthearted fun. Handcuffs are not only sold at hardcore sex shops, but also at stores in the mall. We say “fuzzy” for a reason. Fuzzy handcuffs are novelty items, with a safety release that is more about the idea of being restrained, than the reality. If you handcuff a girl to the headboard with a pair of fuzzy, novelty handcuffs, she can literally rip them off. This is a good place to start if you’re into the idea of bondage or being tied up, because it provides the sense of being restrained, and the practicality of actually being able to break loose. Actually being tied up, where you can’t immediately break loose, is some serious shit. That’s not for beginners, but those fuzzy handcuffs can be fun. Try them out, and if you and your chick like it, take the next step.