Everyone takes selfies. If you try and deny it, you’re probably lying. While girls are more known for it, guys are just as guilty of it. We take pictures to make sure we’re looking our best that day, and we take pictures showing off our progress at the gym. It’s natural, and if you’re trying to get with women online, you’ve got a profile to fill out. The most crucial part of your profile on any hookup or dating sites is your picture. It needs to be a good one, and most important, it needs to make you look good. Some people say it’s best to only have one; others disagree and say that the more she can see of you, the better it will be. As with most things to do with sex and dating, there’s a fine line to walk between showing off what you’ve got and showing off too much.
How Many Pics?
Catch yourself with only one or two pictures on your profile, and you risk the chance that she’s going to end up perceiving you in a way that’s not going to help your chances of hooking up with her. If you only have one picture, she might think you’re self-conscious and that’s why you don’t want to upload more. Worse, she’ll think you’re a fake profile ad won’t even bother messaging you at all even though your profile sounds like what she’s looking for. On the other hand, if you have too many pictures on your profile, you look like an arrogant idiot who does nothing besides take pictures of himself so he can show off. No matter how hot you are, that’s going to be a total turn-off for her and she won’t even bother messaging you. Too few pictures says “I’m not really confident in myself” and too many says “I think I’m better than you”. Both aren’t going to get you very far with the ladies.
Shoot For 5 or Fewer Pics
A good number of pictures to have is somewhere between three and five. They have to be good pictures, or it’s just as bad as having too few or too many. No grainy webcam picture is going to give her an accurate judgment of what you look like, so avoid those. Also avoid any picture where it looks like the sole purpose of the photo is to show off your bulging muscles. Let your body speak for itself, and make sure you’re making an attractive face. Believe us; she’s going to notice these things. One of the most important thing about pictures, is to never upload a picture of your dick. When you get further into a relationship with her, maybe she’ll ask you for that. Though, you need to wait until she asks you. If you just upload a picture assuming she’s going to want to see it, it can only end badly for you. When girls get dick pics from guys in a text message, they laugh and delete it. If one of your pictures is some over-the-top photo of your dick with a lame caption (please guys, if you’ve named it, keep it to yourself) then she’s going to laugh and go to the next profile for someone who is a little less desperate and a little more mature.