Contrary to popular belief, feminists really don’t hate men at all. In fact, feminists appreciate men more than most other women, so they make great girlfriends. It’s not that they think women are superior at all; it’s that they believe that women and men should be on equal ground. Feminists are opinionated and headstrong, but they’re also remarkably intelligent and good for conversations, not to mention they’re more open to trying new things in the bedroom. There are endless reasons to go after a feminist, but how do you date one?
Know the Issues
First of all, it’s important to be informed and sensitive toward the issues she feels strongly about. Feminists can be easily offended if you say the wrong thing, so make sure to do your research. Be courteous and don’t do things that can be perceived as sexist – she can get that door by herself, and sometimes she really does want to pay for that dinner. She’s not incapable; so don’t treat her that way and you two will get along great!
Be Ready to Talk
Your research will come handy for conversations as well – feminists love to discuss issues with you. Small, friendly debates are a great way to keep your conversations exciting as well as to let her know that you’re genuinely thinking about the things she’s passionate about. If you can keep things civil and accept rebuttal, these conversations will get her ridiculously into you. She’ll like small touches and a lot of eye contact, not crude groping while she’s trying to talk. She might not give it up easily, but this will only help you in the long run.
Easygoing in the Sack
When you do get her to give it up, it’ll be completely worth the wait. Feminists are very open-minded in the bedroom, and are willing to try anything. So, that kink you wanted to test out? Just ask her and she’ll probably agree! Do you have your eye on a new position that most girls wouldn’t go for? As long as it isn’t painful, it’s probably fine with her. Feminists are remarkably easygoing in the bedroom, and are usually more dominant. This is great because she’ll take charge with you and show you what she likes; that way you’re spared from the awkward task of trying to figure out what pleases her without asking her outright. Since she’s comfortable in her femininity and sexuality, she’ll be more than happy to show you how to pleasure her so that you can both get the most stimulation possible in the sack.