Older chicks have been around the block, and they know what they want. Now obviously we’re not talking about dating your grandma here, but a few years difference between you and your girl can be a good thing. Chicks of our own age can be flaky, overly emotional, and have no idea what they want in the bedroom. That’s the beauty of older women: they know exactly what they want, and they can be a lot of fun, especially in the sack. Here are some of the things we’ve learned about dating older women – the good, the bad and the ugly.
Pleasing Her Is Your Goal
Women are demanding to begin with, and more experienced ones aren’t going to settle for subpar skills in bed. The chick you’re hooking up with has probably been with enough people that she knows the difference between good sex and bad sex, so make sure you do, too! You can’t just pound it home and expect her to be satisfied. First, get a sense of her expectations. Is she kinky? Vanilla? Cater to her desires. You don’t have to become her sex slave (although we’d be okay with that!), but getting an idea is going to prepare you to measure up to her standards. If you suck, you’re not getting another shot, and getting it on with a girl who knows what she’s doing can mean mind blowing sex. It’s worth the effort.
Let her pay! She’s probably got a good job and a career, and if you’re still waiting for your big break, she’s a ballin compared to you. Obviously, not every older babe is carrying around hundreds but it’s more than likely that she’s established enough in her life that she’s going to think your hotdog stand and walk in the park date is lame. Thing is, play up the fact that you’re not rich. Don’t say you’re a bum – that’s a total turn off – but it’s fine to be up front that you can’t afford lavish dates. It will make her feel like she’s in control and important, and you score some sweet ass dinners. But return the favor here – if you can’t buy her stuff, you can win her over by being thoughtful. It’s not even hard. Just remember what her favorite flowers are, drop $10 on a bouquet, and she’ll be feeling pretty good about you.
Common Problems to Watch For
Although there are major upsides to dating hot, older babes, there are downsides, too. We’ve run into a few common problems we’ll let you in on so you don’t make the same mistakes other guys have. The number one issue is whether she’s MARRIED. Hot chicks that are a little further along in life usually don’t stay single for long, but it’s totally possible. Trust us and do your homework, though. Check for a wedding ring, texts that end with her leaving (she’s probably going home to her husband), or dramatic phone calls. Dating a married woman and not KNOWING sucks, and it’s better to avoid drama at all costs.