If you’re trying to get with a hot woman whom you met online, you’re probably going to find out more about her than what she willingly tells you. If you know her full name or her e-mail, you’ll probably be able to find her on most social media sites out there: Facebook, Twitter, and so on. Don’t worry, it doesn’t mean that you’re obligated to try and maintain a committed relationship. In fact, it just means that there’ll be a quicker way to message her when you have time for a hookup. That’s great. If that’s the kind of relationship you’re okay with, and want to keep it purely casual then avoid ‘you text her and she texts you and you get together on lunch break’ type of relationship. You don’t need the headache and trust us, you don’t want to have to deal with the trouble she’ll put you through down the road if she starts thinking you’re friends or something more, when you’re just trying to get it in.
Avoid the Commitment Trap
There’s a fine line to walk when you’re trying to connect with a girl you’ve been hooking up with as a Facebook friend, or a Twitter follower, and it’s for this reason that it’s better not to walk it. Stick to your text messages or messages over whatever hookup site you met each other or you’ll end up falling into a sort of committed situation no matter how hard you try. Even if you claim your relationship is just friends with benefits, you’re already falling into a trap. Putting a label of any kind on whatever it is you’re doing with her is the worst idea you could have. Sleep with her and treat her nicely but don’t pretend it’s any more than it actually is. Most importantly, take time whenever you can to make sure she doesn’t think it’s more than it is.
Go Ahead and Snoop
Don’t get us wrong, a little snooping is fine. In fact it’s probably a great idea Hey, maybe she’ll even have some hot pictures up for you to look at, and with the way some women take selfies these days, those might be just as good as something she’d send you. If you search her e-mail and find one of her sites, it’s only natural to want to find out as much as you can about her. You can bet she’s going through the pages of your photos, too, so don’t feel bad. Just make sure you don’t accidentally click ‘like’ and end up revealing the fact that you’ve been ‘creeping’ as she’ll call it when she laughs about it with her girlfriends. Look at her pictures, look at what she’s doing with her friends, and find out her interests. Believe us, you’ll thank us for telling you not to click that “Add Friend” button down the road when you drop her and find another lady to hook up with instead.