If you’re looking for sex online, that doesn’t necessarily mean you have to take your chances and meet up in person with the girls you find there. Let’s be honest, by doing that you run the risk of her not being everything her picture made her seem, and you might end up getting scammed. If that idea is totally off-putting to you, you can always just stick to strictly online hookups; that is to say, a little phone sex, or the both of you getting yourself off on a video chat for each other. If you’re going to use this as your way to get off, there are a few things you need to know.
Don’t just strip everything off right away. There’s no fun in that, and no matter how horny you are, you wouldn’t want her to kill the mood by not even trying to give you a little show. What you want from her is to take her clothes off in front of you nice and slow, bit by bit, and tease you because you both know that’s going to build up tension and heighten the pleasure later. You don’t have to do a little striptease for her, but at least wait until you’re a few minutes into your cam hookup before you start taking off your clothes.
Do make sure to compliment her as much as you can. If you were in person, you would show your appreciation for her body by running your hands all over it, making sure that the words you say are spoken at just the right time and she’s wet before you even get between her legs. Tell her how gorgeous she is when she takes her clothes off, and when she’s touching herself make sure to remember that it’s you who’s getting her off and you should be grateful of that.
You definitely don’t want to seem like you’re ordering her around. She might be into that, but she’ll tell you if she is. If the angle she’s at isn’t getting you a good enough view, don’t just bark at her to move, Try phrasing it in a different way, i.e. “Let me see more of that” rather than “Move like this, I can’t see”. It will sound better to her and get you the kind of show you’re looking for.
Something you do need to make sure to do if you’re having a webcam hookup is to make sure you set the mood. It’s different when you don’t have her right there next to you to set the mood, and a little difficult to know how you should have the lights, the music, and other things like that. Some quiet background music with a beat that you know gets you both going (try some trance music for a new experience and you’ll be surprised how euphoric your orgasms are) and keep the lights low for some ambience, but not so low that you can’t see each other on what are possibly low-quality webcams.