Women like things that are more than they seem. Just like in that book she’s reading about the guy who’s a suave, charismatic businessman on the surface and kinky BDSM lover underneath, women want you to be more than you seem. Now, we’re not saying you need to get into any new kinks just to impress a woman, but revealing a few of your hidden talents will be sure to draw them to you. It doesn’t have to be a sexy trick, and for your own sake, don’t try and impress her by tying a cherry stem in a knot with your tongue because you can’t get tackier than that. Don’t worry, hooking up online isn’t going to throw off your game and fall short of impressing her. In fact, what better place to showcase your talents than someone she can see them so easily?
Playing an Instrument
Here’s your chance to actually use those lessons you took trying to learn an instrument when you were bored! Maybe you picked up the guitar so you could play in your best buddy’s band, or maybe you learned to play drums. These are the two most likely to impress a girl, so you’re in luck! Girls have a thing for musicians, it’s a proven fact. Why do you think those girls are always hanging around waiting for the band after concerts? Something about musicians just turns them on. Maybe it’s wondering if those fingers that are so good on the strings of the guitar, how great they would be anywhere else? Film a video of you playing music for her and send it, and you’ll have her screaming your name when you get to take her home.
Drawing or Painting
Alright, so this isn’t considered the sexiest of talents or hobbies. It doesn’t scream of the erotic unless you’re drawing porn, which you may or may not be into, so you might be a little hesitant to admit you aced all those art classes in high school. Just the fact that you’re an artist will turn her on, believe it or not! Women love a guy who’s creative and isn’t afraid to show it, and after all, artists do have a reputation. They’re sensitive by nature, but not afraid to be completely open and more than a little weird, especially in the bedroom. Trust us, she’ll love it.
Never underestimate the power of words, especially for women. They like lots of descriptions and they especially like to hear what you want to do to them. You don’t have to write a novel-length erotica for her, all about what you plan for your next date. Just don’t worry. Send her a simple little note with some thinly veiled innuendos (or just be blunt about it, if that’s your style) and it is guaranteed to get her wet. It’s especially great for online relationships because written things like this build up tension, and will be a great thing for her to read when she’s missing you. She’ll be sending you messages and begging for it and she’ll be on you the second you get to meet up.